Okay folks, most of you know bits and pieces of how we got together, but we think it’s best to start from the very beginning—30 years ago to be exact!
Yep, thirty looong years. The Hubster and I have known each other longer than some marriages. LOL. Mutual friend and I have know each other for 27 years. And the Hubster and Mutual friend knew each other since teenagers. So yeah, there is some serious history between all of us. So this is how our story is going to be broken down. Into four parts Part One – Me meeting The Hubster This is starting from 1988! How we meet, became friends, then decided to date then get married. We’ll have some tid bits in-between too. LOL The other chapters are in flashbacks. Part Two – Me meeting Mutual Friend. This happened three years after the Hubster and I meet. We were still just friends. So this was an interesting meet up. And the things that happened, for one I went off to Italy for four years to study classic singing-opera and dated my voice teacher. Yes, very interesting years. LOL Part Three – The Arrangement. This might be the longest of the chapters so to speak, This includes our dating, feelings for Mutual Friend, marriage and decided on this ménage setup. Very complicated stuff. Part Four – The Ceremonies. The shortest of the chapters. Our marriage ceremony and then I, the Hubster and Mutual friend. Surprisingly enough, this was less complicated than everything else that took place before. So stayed tuned. I will post on Face book went the first chapter is posted!
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Yes, we know, we know. It’s been a minute since we posted something, but this last years has been a doozy. A lot of dram a heartache, medical issues with my mom….
In other words….life! But we’re back! And we’ll try to keep up with posting. So where are we know? At our villa in southern Italy, for much needed R&R. We went to Palermo, Sicily for Papa Spalino’s 106th B’day and now we’re here. Soon we’ll be In Monaco giving an interview with some government officials about moving there and that’s what this post is about. The Hubster, Mutual Friend and I have decided after much talking and weighing in the pros and cons, to move to Monaco. It’s no more expensive than living in New York. Okay, maybe a bit more. But we can swing it. I’m sure a lot of you are wondering: “Wow, they are sticking with this ménage arrangement, no matter where!” Well….yes! Wherever The Hubster and I go, Mutual Friend is right there with us. This is another huge move for us, and our arrangement wasn’t something we did when we were drunk. (BTW, I don’t drink and the guys don’t drink to excess. LOL. But you know what I mean. ) So this move to another country is not taken lightly. Mutual Friend suggested it actually. The Hubster and I were like: “Hmmm, I don’t know.” But the more we thought about it, we just figured it’s just like moving to another neighborhood…no big deal. And how will we handle our relationship? The same as always. Nothing has changed and we will not change our behavior. Public displays of affection will still persist. People coming to us and being inquisitive will still happen. On a side note, people seem more accepting or just don’t make a big deal of seeing two guys and a girl being affectionate, or any combination thereof. So planting roots in another country does seem permanent. Who knows about that and how long we’ll stay there even, but our relationship is solid. So are we in it for the long haul? You bet we are! No matter what part of the globe we live in. |
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