Okay here is my question. If you’re in a ménage relationship, should you be childless or at the very least, have grown children that live in another state and no nothing of your personal business?
Here is our situation. The Hubster and I never wanted children. We both come from HUGE families. The Hubster is one of 22 children. Mutual Friend is one of 12 children, and I’m an only child, but have dozens and dozens…and dozens of cousins. So our gene pool is cool. LOL So we don’t have to worry about trying to “explain” things to our kids. Heck, children are confused enough about sex and relationships. My opinion, and this opinion is shared by the Hubster and Mutual Friend. If you are in a ménage relationship, you should not bring children into the world. If you want children, then the relationship has to be cut. I know that sounds harsh, and coming from us, that seem so liberal it seems strange, but here’s the thing: This is still a non-traditional relationship. Also, I don’t want my children confusing this with going outside the marriage, just to go outside the marriage, if that makes sense. You see, we’ll have to explain that this is not cheating, but a committed relationship, unlike having an affair and…. You see where the confusion can come in? This is why we believe that if you’re in this sort of relationship, you should already have agreed not to have children…at least during the duration of your relationship. OR, have grown children that live somewhere else with their own families and no nothing of your deal. What do you think?
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